Love is an amazing feeling isn't it. Well I am asking those who have ever been in love or still are holding on to the most precious feeling in the world, that makes you be on top of the world by just trying to make your loved one smile :)
What is love some say. Is it love when you love someone because they love you? Is love when you love someone because you want them in your life and don't want them to be ever away from you? Or is love something that is pure as the air in the highest mountains, or deeper than the deepest of oceans.
Is love something that makes you feel stronger than you have even been before? Or does it make you weaker than the weakest of people you know. Has love really gotten the magic in it that makes the world seem its on your feet? Or is love something that makes you wary of who you are.
If you ask me I would say that Love is just a word. A word that each and everyone of us sees differently. I see it as first priority in anything I do when I am thinking of that special someone who makes my world so beautiful, for others it can be a second priority. It is a word that in my dictionary is the only word that makes me feel alive. Too Bollywoodish you may say but let me explain :)
We as human beings are creatures who tend to go towards those that tell us they love us and like us as who we are. But not forgetting the fact that there are people out there who might be saying things but when the time comes might leave you into a ditch where you would never imagine them being. So I would say that when you start having feelings for someone based not on lust you will see a totally different personality of the other individual.
When I look at people on trains, on the road, on the plane. I start thinking. And that too very deeply, and it always amazes me even more and more when i get into that thinking phase of looking at couples and wondering. "I wonder what he feels for the girl he is holding the hand of" or "They seem kind of stiff is this love or just a relation without any feelings". I mean during those few seconds of "reading people" I learn so much and then thank God for what I have, and that is a heart which when feels for someone, it never backs off. Is that good or bad, that's between me and God.
My advice would be to all those that feel love is not for them. Love is for everyone. All you need to do is open up and be honest with yourself, because that's the ONLY way you will be honest with the other person who you are involved with. Maybe it's kind of wierd, but I have the thinking that when you open your heart to someone and tell them that you love them you keep that "love" alive until the day you die.. If you have said you love someone and then backed off by the fear of the world, ask yourself one thing... Are you being fair to the very meaning of what Love stands for...
This topic we discussed on our liveshow on CrazeFM few days ago, not surprised at all that the world is full of people who have no respect for the word love, but claim to have lots of self respect. Sorry to say, it goes hand in hand.
